Since our first short term trip here I have
been confronted and conflicted with how to deal with needs. How to help and it
really be a long term help, how not to get taken, how not to be calloused, how
to deal with not being able to meet them all, and what kind of help is needed
versus sometimes what is requested.
When I get a good handle on it I will be sure
to let you know.
Much like the media sensation in NYC recently
where a NYPD officer was photographed giving a $100 pair of shoes to a homeless
man that was barefoot.
It looked great...felt good. We all smiled at
this tender hearted policeman.
At the same time though....I wondered, with no
joy at the thought, but I wondered.
Then I saw the follow-up story this week,
reporting that the homeless man (an army veteran whose name is Jeffery Hillman)
is still barefoot. He has hidden those very expensive shoes, as they are worth
too much money, he says his life would be in danger. He is grateful and wishes
there were more people like the officer in the world, as well as wonders with
all this publicity where his piece of the pie is.
And then the story adds... “Hillman's brother Kirk lives in Nazareth, Pa., and
according to the Daily Mail had not heard
from since January. "We love our brother
very much," Kirk Hillman told the Daily News. "Our door is always open to him, but this is a
lifestyle he's chosen." Mr. Hillman actually has an apartment that is paid for
by a combination of rent vouchers, Social Security, and military veteran
benefits, but lives on the street.
Not all homeless choose to live that way, not
all situations are black and white. Not all economically poor just need money
or stuff to fix their situation. How to be a good steward and help...tough
business.
Life is not a fairy tale. God does not say
that working all this out will be easy. Figuring out what the best way is to
really help people is hard sometimes, and hard on those that want to help.
So why do it? The Bible commands it. If you
need additional motivation...focus not on the possible negatives, but the huge
positives that are possible when in faith you step out of what is comfortable.
If your motivations are right, then the outcome being positive or negative is
not as important. We can not control all the outcomes. We plan, we try to be
as wise as serpents but innocent as doves, we try to do the best and not just do
the quick fix if a longer term one is what is needed.
We do what we can, responsibly of
course...prayerfully of course, but the rest is out of our hands.
That is scary...especially knowing we serve a
long term God.
So this post is to encourage
us....to encourage me to be bluntly honest...to push forward, keep going,
keep praying and looking at the opportunities God is giving you, and not be
weighed down by the ones we miss, screw up, or don’t feel we did “right.” Focusing on those, and Lord knows there are plenty....focusing on that, and making comments like my last one there, are a tactic from the enemy to discourage us, to get us looking in the wrong direction.
Soli Deo Gloria
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